First Day Jitters!

As most of you know Ella had her first day of Kindergarten, this past Tuesday. This was especially exciting for me because this is MY old school!
So this is how the day started.... some ANXIETY....some TEARS....a NERVOUS belly....and excitement....For Mommy! But Ella got up excited and ready to go! She was telling us about boys kissing her on the playground and having to break up with Papa (her current boyfriend), while waiting for the Bus! She jumped on the bus....almost forgetting to pose for the picture! we followed her bus to school.... Jesse greeted her at the school, asking if she could escort her to her room....Ella wanted to do it on her own. Mommy noticed Ella had taken a wrong turn and ran after her, but Ella was re-directed toward the right classroom. Jesse had to hide behind a door not to be noticed by "Miss Independence".... which we found out later that Ella saw her Mommy after all!
We were all waiting for Ella when she returned home with a huge smile!

2 Months and 18 Days....but who's counting!?

So I have been quite lazy in the "Blogging" department. I have been gone for a month then home again for something like a week, then out for another month.... then I am home for just a few days and..... NO I am not leaving again.... then I am REALLY home. Yup! that's right around 24/7.... what a treat! Jesse must be going crazy.... I finally get home and can actually try to help, then I become another child...or speed bump....in her crazy world! I had been getting ready for bed about 2 weeks ago and something snapped in the back of my leg sending me straight to the ground.... and now here I am "blogging" again. What else can I do. My sciatic nerve and some planta.... some muscle in the back of my knee are hurting like....Child Birth...I think....I have actually only been present during the action.... and my wife did that without drugs for two of them... so maybe this is worse.....OR MAYBE NOT! For one thing I am sure, it is probably more painful for Jesse to have me around and still have to get a babysitter!

Pray for me please.... If I don't feel better soon, I don't go to work, if I don't go to work, I will go CRAZY and worse yet my wife is liable to commit me or lock me in a closet....but probably one at someone else's house!

hacker

sorry patrick...but i hacked into your blog. a little friend :) thought it was about time to update your header picture. thought this might be a good fit for now until we can get a good family portrait one of these days.

love- jess

Proud!

This past few days we've had the opportunity to spend some time with family in Carthage and Albany. Yes... four kids in a car for hours, two days in a row, and everybody survived. Actually not only did they all make it home, they made it home alive! I am saying to you and have said to them several times over the past few days.... I'm Proud!
They have made me laugh and sigh of relief many times this weekend, though I worked on the holiday I was able to continue to spend time with them today, thinking about plans for Father's Day and You know what... all I could think of was how good....I mean... Great they were these past few days, and I don't say it enough.... I'm proud of them and their Mommy. She is doing a great job being a Mom...with a little help from me (I think)!

Okay... Who Forgot the Marshmallows!?

Why Me...Why Us? As some of you may know, we went to Philadelphia this past weekend to meet and hopefully not scare off Tyler's soon-to-be In-laws. We took the 4 plus hour trip with the little munchkins...believe it or not that is not the scary part.
We arrived safely, on time, NO wrong turns, very little traffic, and not vomiting due to car sickness. Sounds too good to be true, but shorty after we got there the FUN started. Alarms, flashing lights, and sirens. Real fire on the 15th floor.
Brody loved the Fire Trucks and Guys In Suits...Me not soo much...NOT at MY hotel anyway.
All and all The weekend ended up to a good one. Tyler's new family is nice, the reception venue is pretty, and we had fun in the pool!

Not Quite Chocolate Ice Cream.....

Water in the basement....along with a few other floating items. We have had problems in the past...Old House...Big tree...and Plumbing aren't all friends. Since we've had problems in the past we were able to quickly remedy the situation, in the process I found a PLASTIC ICE CREAM CONE. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't think that is where it was suppose to "put away."



WELCOME HOME... NOW CLEAN UP A POOPIE BASEMENT! Oh, by the way the child responsible quickly ran to MY chair and gave himself a "time out"....only after blaming Joseph.

Read This...You Might Need It!

I was just reading something this morning and this quote keeps running through my head so I thought that I might just share it with you. It makes sense, but why?

"In fact, the only thing more absurd than the gift is our stubborn unwillingness to receive it"
Max Lucado

Why is is soo hard for us to imagine that God loves us so much that he sent his son in human form for us?

Happy St. Patrick's Day!!!

Hope you are all enjoying such a wonderful day. I hope that you are all able to raise your glass and toast Ireland today.
I just want to remind of the two kinds of people in this world...
The Irish...and those Who WANT To Be!

Go Sabres!

I think my boss is trying to make a Bill's Fan or a Sabres' fan for all you hockey fans out there. I'm back out of town and will be here in North Buffalo for the next 30 days.

I thought I was taking a VACATION!

Most of you will be following the next few posts on Jesse's Blog. So I must begin by saying that I will be returning to work to recuperate from the full time job of parenting. I must also state that whom ever said that boys are easy must have only had a teen aged children and skipped right over the toddler years. Wow!!!, can they move fast when they want something and I think that they are able to grow additional arms, legs, hands, and feet while throwing tantrums or while walking through a store or gift shop.

A "Stay at Home Mom" is a full time career... it's "job" description/requirements should go something like this:

Negotiating Skills Needed!
Time Management and Organizational Skills NEEDED!
Patience is a much needed virtue.
Must Be "On Call" 24/7...NO EXCEPTIONS!
Vacations... Not eligible for the first 12-15 yrs.
Sick Time... Are you kidding?
Pay... __________________________________
Room and Boarding Included.
Cooking Skills a Plus!

It's funny how simple things like a vacation and "family time" can REALLY make you appreciate your wife...I have always said "She is worth far more than I could ever pay", but even I didn't really understand until I "had" to "help" take care of our children 24/7 without going to work for a break!

29 + ONE!

I will soon be turning the dreaded 30 years old...for all of you who have been the brunt of my "old people jokes"...I AM SORRY!

Before all of you have the chance, I will answer a few questions...

Yes, I have made funeral arrangements.
Yes, I have sent in my paper work for AA RP.
Yes, I have received my free brochure for a little rascal scooter.
No, I do not have GRAY hair
No, I do not dye my hair either, other than that one time when I was in High School.
No, I will not be buying a sports car...I'd rather a Truck!
Yes, I have already noticed the "Spare Tire," actually I think I may have TWO!

I know most of you think that turning 30 isn't soo bad...but most of you have been telling yourselves that for a few years...I guess I'll start to believe it someday also.

...and life goes on!

I am home. What a great feeling to drive down a street that is familiar. It's awesome to see the kids...I've been able to hear them screaming, but no see them for weeks.

TomTom

Can you tell me where West Falls is? Neither can TomTom... the village is soooooooooooo small that it is only recognized in GPS systems by ZIP code. Have I mentioned how much I miss Syracuse?

...And Then I Wore A Smile!

Reflection is quite the eye opener isn't it? It's also amazing how God puts things in front of you OVER and OVER and OVER again. You can always seem to find things to "busy" yourself, you can always find things to take up time when you are trying to AVOID what God wants you to do.
So maybe he is trying to tell me to appreciate a little more...he led me to try to express THANKSGIVING more. He's led to me read and re-read other blog entries. He's led me away from my family and friends and what is otherwise familiar. He has taken comforts away, though minimal, they are noticeable.
What do you think you are taking for granted...Is it Gods love and Salvation, is it Forgiveness, is it your Children, or you Spouse, OR was it a Christian leader. If I want to succeed the way God intends...I must stop and appreciate what is provisioned for me. I must pray in thanksgiving and "ask" for less because he has a plan and I must trust that he knows what is best for me.
I miss my family and my home...but I am thankful for this time of reflection!

Coming and Going...

This weekend I was able to go home for a few days...but now I'm back on my "Board and Lodging" assignment here in "BUFFALO". It seems that they kids enjoyed my stay...but probably not as much as I did. I HAD to sleep in Brody's bed a little and the girls HAD to sleep in our bed a little also.
We were blessed with the arrival of Jesse's nephew and also got to spend time the "Rose" Clan to celebrate Cousin Kennedy's Birthday.
Although I had 2 full days at home...It still was not enough. I was going to make my return trip last night, then my BEAUTIFUL wife decided that she would make the time to snuggle and watch our "shows"... thus a return trip this morning a 4am. I had a great time and wouldn't have wanted to spend my time any other way. I miss my Children, Dog, Bed and Wife! Not necessarily in that order.
2 more weeks and counting!

Here I Am

Hamburg NY...Not quite Home...nor would I want it to be. The weather is terribly cold and the the streets outside of town stink...We are working a little of O.T., but that doesn't seem to justify us being here.
Hope you all are doing well in your own beds and eating home cooked meals in civilization.
Oh!..I'm probably going to miss the SU game tonight...When I asked for some good places to watch the SU game,the response I got was..."SU...Southern...Who? You do know that there's a SABRE'S game on tonight!"
So...I'm in Buffalo...really SPRINGVILLE where I was passed by a horse and buggy...in town.
Where are you... are you thankful for HOME...I sure am...and all the things that come with it. Screaming KIDS, whining dogs, Screaming Kids, Driveways to shovel, Screaming Kids, Dishes to load/unload after dinner, and SCREAMING KIDS!

Normal Rockwell

We have all seen the paintings of Norman Rockwell, and I assume have all wondered what a perfect life would be like. Some of you may know that Jesse's Grandmother has just "entered the Gates of Heaven." This to some may not seem a blessing...loss is difficult and also very hurtful. Imagine if you were one of those paintings...so perfect; so simple...you wouldn't know love or loss. God has given us "Faith, Hope, and Love," and if we did not feel loss of any kind, we would not appreciate the love that we have felt. What do you consider to be normal? Is it one of those "American" paintings; or is it real life, hard as is may be at times?
We all have many things to be thankful for...just some of us don't realize just how thankful we should be until it's too late. After the death of my Uncle, my Aunt had shared a poem about loss and sharing kindness. The author was Unknown...probably because what he had to say was hurtful, but true. He simply states that it is better to tell someone today how you love them, how thankful you are for them, and how much you'll miss them NOW, rather than sit in sorrow after they have gone to be with our Savior.
Without the grief of loss, how can we be empathetic or how can we console our grieving friends? Without sorrow, how can we know real happiness?
After my 30 days of thankfulness, I realized that I found it difficult to find things that I was truly thankful for...I found that there are many things that I take for granted. My family is one of those things. Jesse is one of those people and there are too many others to list...but when we need a shoulder to lean on most, are we really there for our brothers, sisters and spouses like we could be or should be? Do we learn from our mistakes and use them to teach others and ourselves? Do we embrace our hypocrisies and turn from them, our do we continue with "what works?"

I challenge you and myself to try to show appreciation, love, and sympathy more often. I sometimes would rather sit back and feel more sorry for myself...inflate my problems to BIGGER than the "next guys." In the grander scheme of things...life is difficult enough so why should we go about alone, and why should we allow our friends and family to do the same?

Friendly Reminder

Sometimes when you seem to need it most your children say or do something that just leaves you laughing. Last night Jesse and I both decided to have some "snuggle time" with the two girls. We went in and started to "sneak" into their beds when Ella yells out...I mean whispers..."Cassidy don't wipe your BOOGERS on Daddy!"
I have to say I'm thankful that Ella reminded her sister so kindly...but WHY exactly did she have to remind her!?

Self Disciplined...

The other day, after Christmas, Cassidy decided that the whole behaving and acting appropriately was just too much for her...it seemed to "cramp her style" a bit.

So this is how it all went down...from my perspective anyway, I'm sure in a few years there will be some spin and somehow she was framed...but for now this is what happened.

Brody let out a whale of a cry...Cassidy starts running toward Me..."don't worry, I'm going for a time out!"
I couldn't even get her to stop to tell me what she did at first...but I did see her standing over her brother with a long neck dinosaur! After getting an explanation...it seems that the gratification of hitting her brother with the present she got him for Christmas FAR out weighed the punishment of a "time out!"

Isn't she soo cute! Oh... by the way, Brody didn't sustain any injuries in this particular attack.

Do You Believe In Magic?

This year we certainly found out that there is definitely a REAL "Magic" in Christmas....We made to church on time...actually early! The girls are learning why we celebrate...and why it is MORE important to give than receive, not that they don't really enjoy the receiving better.

I hope and pray that all of you are resting right now or getting ready anyway.

Today I need to remind myself that everyone is tired and cranky...so I'm annoying them as much as they are annoying me. I need to remind myself to focus on our Savior. I need to remind myself that the cookies I'm eating probably are not fat free, and I can no longer blame the pregnancy for the extra pounds.
I think I hear Santa...remember he won't come unless you're SLEEPING...I wish i could just get Joseph and Jesse to believe that.

GOD BLESS and Merry Christmas!